Recommendations for self-improvement
Your main problem is that you find it difficult to regularly perform boring, everyday tasks of purely material or pragmatic nature. You are usually not economical with your finances, have difficulty with housekeeping. You find it difficult to resist the temptation to acquire beautiful things, the cost of which is beyond your budget. Be careful not to waste money on unnecessary trinkets: you are at risk to suffer financially.
To show more restraint in spending to not put yourself into a humiliating position when you'll have to find any ways to pay off debts, even sell your things. Don't get tempted by your lofty visions and illusions about the "easy" life, while subordinating moral considerations to them to get rid of the daily grind. Let your sincere feelings guide you towards the right choice when you have to select between the material and spiritual aspects of life.
Your other problem is that you are not inclined to hide from others your frustrations and complains about your health and physical state. You can tire others with your complains, make them distrust the sincerity of your sentiments. Refrain from making excessive demands of others and complaints about the lack of care in relation to you. To have the attention of others, try to temper some moodiness in your character.
Be more generous and show active support for people. Try to earn good favor by diligence and hard work, and by active participation in common affairs. Refrain from giving empty promises. Do not spend your free time in dreams, barren emotional conversations, and analyzing secret anxieties. If you devote more of your time to some real concrete activities, your chances to succeed in life will increase significantly.
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That's also the part of Enneagram 4 that I identify with (even though I'm a 6)
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